Saturday, June 11, 2011

zafri dah besar...:)

salam...
lame dh x update blog....lame juga x cerita pasal zafri...zafri dah besar sekarang....he's 17 months already...macam2 die dah pandai buat...sangat berkembang otak die...alhamdulillah....dapa tgk anak membesar depan mate adalah saat2 yang sgt terindah bg kami berdua (ibu n abah)...
perkara terbaru yang die baru dapat ptg td,die buat penapis air atas meje mkn tu as a shower..huh!!die jengketkan kaki die,and then die press kuat2...dahlah banjir disitu..dan dgn selambenye die buat gaye ala2mandi disitu...masyaallah....ape saje keje anak ibu nih...
so far, die dh faham ape yg kite cakap n marah...tp die akan mule ajuk kite marah,atau buat x tau bile kite cakap..ataupun merajuk 10 saat...errmmm....elok2 tgh marah, terus x jadi marah...alahai anak ibu ni...:)


anak bujang saye yg sangattttt rajin....huhuhuhu...sejuk perut ibu nakk oii...


de dh pandai mintak berus gg and tiru kite gosok gigi...try kumur2...suwit sgt anak ibu ni..
(terpuji anak sendiri..hahahah)


p/s:ni baru blajar cakap yg entah ape2 tu...esok2 dh pandai cakap,uiisshh...mesti banyak soal...:P

ibu yang sakit....

salam....
errmm...lame dah x update ape2 kat blog ni...semacam dah dilupakan oleh tuan tanahnye...huhuhuh...adelah dlm 3bulan kot....aiyo...sangat lame....
dalam mase 3 bulan ni...mcm2 benda berlaku....accept ika,adik saye masih dgn perutnye yg besar...baby belum nk keluar lg...sabar ye ika...:)
dalam mase 3 bulan ni juga sangat menguji saye n family kecik saye...i've been sick...huhuhuh...2 penyakit dtg serentak...sangat menguji....alhamdulillah...everythings is getting better now....
dulu2...mmg saye ade migrain..tp tu cerita lame...entah mane silapnye,last month the migrain came and attacked me...huhuuhu...sangat sakit....
sampai at one time saye menangis as if no one in my house...mmg xde orang pun,kecuali zafri....abah zafri keje petang...so,takde siape2 yang saye nk mintak tolong...saye hanye mampu menangis...sian zafri...tercengang2 tgk ibu die nangis mcm tu sekali...
near 12 o'clock abah zafri balik.....lagi sekali migrain attacked...lagi sekali menangis mcm org g**a kot....sangat sakit...rase mcm nk m**i je...(husband x suke sebut pasal m**i2 ni)....mgkn husband pun risau mase tu...sbb saye dpt rase...die kelam kabut tolong picit2kan saye...tolong carik ubat...ermmm...saye sgt sayangkan die...:*
esoknye...saye mc...doc bg ubat migrain yg boleh tahan kuat jugak....n ubat tahan sakit...doc said that ubat tu sleepy..tp bile saye mkn,xde maknenye nk sleepy...lg dizzy ade,rase nk muntah pun ade...langsung x leh tido...huhuhu...esoknye pegi lg klinik....kali ni g amik darah (plus pregnancy test). and it's -ve...tp still continue the ubat...doc bg ubat tahan sakit yg kuat skit n ubat loya2..
alhamdulillah...on the sunday,dah beransur ok....
pastu g amik blod test result....everything is clear...kecuali ade ckit kolestrol n sangat2 kurang air then membawa kepada urine infection....doc tak bagi ubat,sbb die kate saye x mengadu sakit..ok fine...sy sgt bersyukur sbb semuanya ok....
then suddenly,after few days i've been attacked lg...tp kali ni sakit mase nk buang air kecil...sangat sakit...sampai nangis2 jugak...sekali 2 tu boleh tahan...ni banyak kali rase nk buang air,tp each time g buang air kecil mmg tersangat sakit...sampai at one time tu,it's bleeding....ya Allah....terus rase mcm takut sgt...huhuhuh...
then pegi klinik lg...doc dh suspect...mst ade x kene dgn urine...then die bg ubat and rest one day at home...klu x baikjugak...errmmm....
setelah berhari2 mkn ubat,minum air barli sebanyak mungkin...alhamdulillah...akhirnye berakhir penderitaan saye...

sekarang ni,sy sgt jage kesihatan...banyak minum air...minum lg omega plus...:) semuanye untuk keluarga saye....saye tau...abah zafri n zafri sgt x suke bile ibu jatuh sakit...uhuhuhu...


p/s: sepanjang saye jatuh sakit,husband sgt banyak membantu....he is the best husband in the world...i love u abang...zafri: sorry sayang...ibu dh terabaikan kamu sekejap....:(

Thursday, March 17, 2011

how to.....ngeh..ngeh..ngeh...

5 Tips on How To Cope with Jealousy!



Tip 1: Identify The Root Cause

Knowing the cause for jealousy in any situation is the first step towards overcoming such negative emotions. Your own insecurities and unresolved feelings are often the reasons for feeling jealousy towards another. You will have to follow self-confidence building exercises and techniques to overcome self-esteem issues.

Tip 2: Take A Reality Check

If you are in a relationship and you think there's a threat to it from a third party, how sure are you about it? Could it just be the way you are seeing it? Perhaps, you are mistaken. Don't let your assumptions get in the way of a healthy relationship just because you feel jealous based on imagined problems.

Tip 3: Positive Thinking

Like in every situation where negative emotions get in the way of rational thinking, positive thinking helps. When jealousy burns, try thinking of better things. So, your colleague got a promotion and you feel envious because you think you deserved it better? Think of the bonus you got on Christmas last year or how fantastic it was to get that pay raise.

Tip 4: Seek Objective Opinions

Get the perspective of a neutral party. If you are often behaving jealously, they will tell you, but only if you ask in all honesty. Knowing is half way to resolving, so get someone else's opinion.

Tip 5: Find Reassurance

Communication is always the key to resolving issues, so always find reassurance from people around you, if you feel like you are going overboard with jealousy. The best way to seek help is by talking about whatever that's bothering you and causing the problems


hope it will help me a lot...:)